Eh. Yes and no. The Mongo guys are very, very upfront about this. Check their web site. There are good workarounds, they just require spending a bit more on hardware.
Sure. And again, they make that clear. It's quite easy to find out that MongoDB doesn't "have single-server durability". If, like me (and at least one commenter here) you say, "what does that mean?", you can quickly find an explanation on their web site, or in many other places.
that's kind of like saying "we told you our parachutes won't open sometimes. well, not in our conference talks or in our marketing but it's on our wiki and we blogged about it".
if you want to see a message that is clearly delivered about (lack of) durability look at memcached. nobody misunderstands memcached's durability/consistency guarantees.